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Greetings!
Today's postcard is a reprint of one of those stories that travels
by email. Very profound. I wish the author had been named so I
could credit him or her, so if anyone knows that information
please send it along to me.
take care,
karen
Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.
One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each
afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed
was next to the room's only window. The other man had to
spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for
hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families,
their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military
service, and where they had been on vacation.
Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could
sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate
all the things he could see outside the window. The man in
the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where
his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity
and color of the world outside. The window overlooked a park
with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while
children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in
arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city
skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail,
the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and
imagine the picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade
passing by. Although the other man couldn't hear the band, he
could see it, in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window
portrayed it with descriptive words.
Days and weeks passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to
bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body
of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.
She was saddened and
called the hospital attendants to take the body away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he
could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to
make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable,
she left him alone.
Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take
his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly
turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall.
The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased
roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this
window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could
not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to
encourage you."
Epilogue: There is tremendous happiness in making others happy,
despite our own situations. Shared grief is half the sorrow,
but happiness, when shared, is doubled. If you want to feel rich,
just count all the things you have that money can't buy.
Even just being alive today is a gift ... that's why it is
called the present.
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