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Every time I log onto Internet Explorer, I am treated to a randomly generated sequence of quotes from Abraham-Hicks, courtesy of http://sun-angel.com/abraham/index.php. The synchronicities never cease to amaze me.

Here's one I saw for the very first time just a minute ago:

If you really want to find the perfect human relationship, look for someone who is cat-like. Likes to be alone and happy to be with you. Happy when you are there and happy when you're not there. Licks your face occasionally. Will take all the scratching and petting you are willing to offer. Feels secure. Sleeps when it feels like it. Hunts when he feels like it. Basks often. Meditates regularly. Never feels guilty, ever, ever, ever, ever, EVER! Does emphatically what he wants to do. Is always glad to see you. Never cares when you leave... Seems like the perfect partner.

~ Abraham-Hicks

I don't think ALL kitties are this way, but I know that some are. It's certainly a far cry from what we've been socialized to think of as romantic love. I don't hear pop songs with lyrics like I'm happy when you come, and happy when you go. Yet I find this idea immensely satisfying ... and even a bit comforting, because it's exactly how I have come to feel in my current relationship (most of the time, anyway).

I am always happy to see my man when he arrives, and I love doing my own stuff when he leaves. When I first noticed myself feeling this way, I thought maybe something was wrong - maybe it was a sign of unhealthy detachment or distancing or something. But it just keeps feeling fine... happy when he's here, happy when he's not... happy to say hello, happy to say goodbye. Of course, they are different flavors of happy, but it's all good.

Purr... purr ... purr... meow!